No more "I thought you were doing it."
Two parents. Two half-pictures. One trip payment nobody's sure about.
LOAD gives you both the same to-do list. Either of you acts, and the other sees straight away that it's handled.
Swimming payment · £8
Book club sign-up
It always lands on one of you.
You both get the same emails. What neither of you gets is any way to know who has what. So one evening you sit down and quietly sort the trip payment, the consent form, the lot. Your partner had already handled it hours earlier. They just hadn't said, because why would they. Two people, one inbox, each holding half the picture.
School photos · £14
Book parents' evening
Invite a co-parent. Split disappears.
Add a co-parent or carer to the same list. The co-parent invite is always free. Either of you can act, pay it, sign it, claim it, and the other just sees it's handled. No handover text. No evening lost to a job that was already done.
"Mine" marks a task as covered, so you never both book the same slot.
The only nudge is "Dani signed the form." Nothing else buzzes.
Everyone on the same page, on their own terms.
Separated parents, grandparents, the childminder. Each person sees exactly what they need, and nothing they don't. You set the boundary, and you can change it any time.
Separated parents share the list without sharing a household, or a group chat.
Grandparents and carers see the pickups and the packing. The paperwork stays with you.
Revoke access silently and instantly. No message, no awkwardness. It's simply gone.
Dani
Grandma Pat
Childminder
Former au pair
"My ex and I finally stopped the 'did you do it?' texts. We both just see what's handled now. Worth it for that alone."
One list. Both of you. Finally in sync.
Free to start, and the co-parent invite is always free. The only thing that buzzes is what actually got done.